Wednesday Wisdom: Embracing Patience

If you wait until you have enough money to decorate and make your home your own, it will never happen. If you wait until you can afford to buy everything new, you are missing the point. It is the old, the new, the hand-me-down, the collected, the worn but loved things in your home that make it your own. -Stacy Risenmay

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(My livingroom & dining room)

Ever since we moved into our first home, I have been running around like a madwoman! From getting cable installed, to unpacking a million boxes, while decorating a living room I realized I possess little patience. Maybe it has to do with being part of the “microwave generation” wanting everything in 59 seconds or less. On one hand I want a economical DIY space which requires finding or building the right thing, the exhilaration of when it comes together, and the challenge of finding creative ways to fill the space until it’s finished.

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(Quick story: I received this furniture from someone moving very cheaply…only to list it on Craigslist. Then take down the posting only to keep it!)

But on the other hand, it’s driving me insane! I can’t envision the final product of the livingroom and that’s what worries me. I have no choice but to join the slow decorating parade, even if i fight occasionally along the way. I realized I only feel relaxed in completed balanced spaces so having my environment in continual chaos makes me very uneasy. Hence, deployment was rough for me. Last night, I googled this very subject and read how living in boxes and clutter makes one feel out of control and unprepared with all aspects of their life. Deep, huh? When I get overwhelmed with the process, I am trying to remind myself that it only has been a week and to stop and notice how far I’ve come in a short time and how happy I am with the results. I can’t say I am a complete convert, but I am getting there slowly.

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(I bought the rug took it back…only to buy it again! The chaise lounge chair didn’t make the final cut. I absolutely despise it.) D

2 thoughts on “Wednesday Wisdom: Embracing Patience

  1. I sympathize with you! I love the light in the space and the reds and blue contrast is pretty and interesting to the eye. I love how you aren’t afraid of color! We’ve been in our home over a year and I’m still trying to decorate the space. Just started on the Master, and literally just found a possible dining room table (Craigslist). Funny thing is, even when the space is “finished” it will still evolve. I have to constantly remind myself that decorating is a marathon and not a sprint. Craiglist and thriftstores and a friend to my wallet but not always a friend to my patience. LOL

    • It is great to know I am not alone in this home decorating process! I jumped for joy when you said “it isnt a sprint but marathon,” I really need to let that resonate within. To be honest I am scared of white and neutral colors. I am always worried my hubby or children will spill drinks on them. Yes, while the thrift store is good for the pocketbook I tend to put the DIY projects on hold! Luckily, I can text you to help me! Ha! Let’s see how this turns out…..

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